1 In that day Tobit remembered the money which he had committed to Gabael in Rages of Media,
2 And he said to his son, “When I die, bury me; and do not neglect your mother. Honor her all the days of your life. Do what is pleasing to her, and do not grieve her in anything.
3 And when he had called him, he said, “My son, when I die, bury me. And do not neglect your mother. Honor her all the days of your life. Do what is pleasing to her, and do not grieve her in anything.
4 Remember my son, that she saw many dangers for those who live in the land of the Assyrians.
5 “My son, be mindful of the Lord our God all your days, and do not sin or transgress his commandments. Do righteousness all the days of your life, and do not walk in the ways of wrongdoing.”
6 For if you do what is true, your ways will prosper through your deeds.
7 Give alms from your possessions to all who live uprightly, and do not let your eye begrudge the gift when you make it.
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9 “For almsgiving delivers from death and keeps you from going into the darkness.”
10 For almsgiving delivers from death and keeps you from going into the darkness.
11 “For almsgiving delivers from death and keeps you from going into the darkness.”
12 Beware, my son, of all immorality.
13 “Now therefore, my son, love your brothers, and do not disdain to give your sister in marriage to a man.”
14 Let not the wages of any man, which hath wrought for thee, tarry with thee, but give him it out of hand: for if thou serve God, he will also repay thee: be circumspect my son, in all things thou doest, and be wise in all thy conversation.
15 Do to no one what you yourself dislike.
16 “Take heed, my child, of everything you do, and be disciplined in all your conduct.
17 In those days, when you pray, the Lord will listen to you; when you cry out to him, he will deliver you, and once you have returned from captivity, you will see his mercy.
18 Seek counsel from every wise man, and do not despise any useful advice.
19 Bless the Lord your God always, and ask him that your ways may be straight and your paths and plans may prosper.
20 Bless the Lord your God always, and ask him that your ways may be straight and that all your paths and plans may prosper.
21 Do not fear, my child. We lead a poor life, but we will have many good things if we fear God and avoid all sin and do what is good.

The True Meaning of Tobit 4
The Book of Tobit is believed to have been written in the 2nd century BC, during a time of great upheaval for the Jewish people. The author, whose identity remains unknown, provides a vivid account of the trials and tribulations faced by the faithful in the face of adversity. Tobit, a righteous man, imparts crucial wisdom and guidance to his son Tobias in this chapter. Tobit imparts timeless lessons on the importance of charity, honesty, and unwavering faith in the Lord as his life draws to a close. The events that unfold in this chapter foreshadow the remarkable journey that Tobias will embark upon, guided by the angel Raphael, as he seeks to secure his family’s future.
Throughout the passage, the author skillfully weaves in references to other biblical texts, such as the Book of Proverbs, underscoring the universal truths that transcend time and space. Tobit’s words echo the timeless admonition to “honor your father and mother” (Exodus 20:12), reminding us of the sacred duty we have to our loved ones.
Tobit 4:1-6
The verse in Tobit 4:1-6 can be broken down into several important sections. First, Tobit is advising his son Tobias on the importance of almsgiving, which is reflected in the verse, “My son, if you have much, give abundantly; if you have a little, take care even so of your alms.” This reflects the biblical principle of generosity and giving to those in need. Tobit emphasizes the importance of giving regardless of the amount one possesses, showing that the act itself is what matters, not the quantity.
The mention of almsgiving in these verses draws attention to the theme of charity and helping those less fortunate, which is a recurring theme throughout the Bible. Jesus himself speaks about the importance of giving to the poor and those in need in passages like Matthew 25:34-40, where He states that whatever is done to the least of His brothers is done unto Him in the New Testament. Tobit advises Tobias to not turn his face away from any poor man. This encompasses the idea of not ignoring those in need or looking down upon them, but instead, helping them with a kind heart. This aligns with the biblical teaching found in Proverbs 19:17, “Whoever is kind to the poor lends to the Lord, and he will reward them for what they have done.” It reaffirms the notion that when we help the less fortunate, we are serving God through our actions.
Additionally, Tobit instructs Tobias to sow his righteousness in the field of truth, which implies that we should conduct ourselves with honesty, integrity, and righteousness in all our dealings. This instruction speaks to the importance of living a life of virtue and following the ways of God. Throughout the Bible, the concept of sowing and reaping is used metaphorically to emphasize the idea that our actions have consequences. Galatians 6:7-8 further reinforces this principle by stating that a person reaps what they sow, whether in the flesh or in the Spirit. Tobit in these verses also counsels his son about the importance of wedding a wife from his own people. This advice reflects the biblical emphasis on marriage within one’s faith community and the importance of shared beliefs and values in a marital relationship. This instruction is in line with Old Testament teachings that emphasize the significance of maintaining religious and cultural heritage within a family unit. An example of this can be seen in Deuteronomy 7:3-4, where the Israelites are warned against intermarrying with people from other nations to prevent turning away from God. Tobit 4:1-6 provides valuable guidance on righteousness, generosity, and the importance of maintaining one’s faith in all aspects of life. The verses underscore the timeless message of living a life characterized by kindness, charity, honesty, and fidelity to one’s beliefs, which are essential principles found throughout the Bible.
Tobit 4:7-11
Tobit, a righteous man, gives wise advice to his son Tobias in Tobit 4:7-11. This passage is filled with practical instructions on how to live a godly life and maintain a good reputation. Let’s break it down into key sections for a more in-depth commentary:
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“Give alms from your possessions to all who live uprightly, and do not let your eye begrudge the gift when you make it.” Here, Tobit is emphasizing the importance of charity and generosity. Almsgiving in the Bible reflects God’s concern for the poor and needy as a recurring theme. Proverbs 19:17 echoes this sentiment, stating that whoever is kind to the poor lends to the Lord.
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“Do not turn your face away from any poor man, and the face of God will not be turned away from you.” This verse underscores the biblical principle of reaping what you sow. Jesus also teaches about the importance of caring for the less fortunate in Matthew 25:40, where He equates helping those in need with helping Him personally.
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“If you have many possessions, make your gift from them in proportion; if few, do not be afraid to give according to the little you have.” Tobit is instructing Tobias to give generously based on what he has. This aligns with the teachings of Jesus in the story of the widow’s offering in Mark 12:41-44, where a poor widow’s small offering is commended above the larger contributions of the wealthy.
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“So you will be laying up a good treasure for yourself against the day of necessity. For almsgiving delivers from death and keeps one from entering into darkness.” Tobit reveals the spiritual benefits of giving to those in need. Proverbs 11:4 also speaks about the rewards of righteousness, stating that wealth is of no help on the day of wrath, but righteousness delivers from death. Tobit imparts timeless wisdom about the importance of generosity, compassion, and the spiritual rewards of giving in these verses. The act of giving to others not only helps those in need but also enriches the giver and strengthens their relationship with God. Through his fatherly advice, Tobit encourages Tobias to live a life marked by love, kindness, and a deep concern for the well-being of others. This message transcends time and culture, speaking to the universal truth that selfless giving leads to spiritual blessings and a life lived in accordance with God’s will.
Tobit 4:12-19
Tobit advises his son Tobias about helping those in need, particularly the righteous poor, in Tobit 4:12-19. He emphasizes the importance of giving alms and not withholding what is due. Tobit stresses the significance of generosity, as it lays up treasure for the future and delivers from all sin and death. This section highlights the overarching theme of charity and righteousness found throughout the Book of Tobit.
Tobit’s instruction to his son to give alms comes from the belief in the Old Testament that giving to the poor and needy pleases God. Proverbs 19:17 affirms this idea, stating, “Whoever is generous to the poor lends to the Lord, and he will repay him for his deed.” Charity is not only seen as a duty but also as an act that brings blessings and protection from evil.
Furthermore, Tobit’s advice conveys the idea that material possessions are temporary, and true wealth lies in acts of kindness and compassion towards others. This message echoes Jesus’ teaching in Matthew 6:19-21, where he advises storing up treasures in heaven rather than on earth, for where your treasure is, there your heart will be also. This passage from Tobit underscores the eternal value of deeds of charity and righteousness. Tobit in this portion also warns Tobias not to commit sin through neglecting the needs of the poor, as this would result in his own guilt. This reflects the interconnectedness and responsibility Christians have towards one another. The concept of sin affecting not only the sinner but also the wider community is a recurring theme in the Bible, emphasizing the importance of personal righteousness for the collective well-being of society.
Additionally, Tobit mentions the angel Raphael, a central figure in the Book of Tobit, who plays a crucial role in guiding Tobias and aiding him on his journey. Raphael’s presence signifies divine intervention and protection, illustrating God’s care and provision for those who walk in righteousness. This narrative of angelic assistance mirrors instances in the Bible where angels are sent to guide and protect individuals, such as in the stories of Daniel and the Hebrew boys in the fiery furnace (Daniel 3) or the angels ministering to Jesus in the wilderness (Matthew 4:11). These accounts serve as a reminder of God’s faithful presence and intervention in the lives of His people.
Tobit 4:20-21
Tobit gives a final piece of advice to his son Tobias in Tobit 4:20-21. He instructs Tobias to be mindful of the kind of wife he chooses to marry, emphasizing the importance of selecting a wife from the lineage of his ancestors. Tobit stresses the significance of choosing a wife not just for her physical beauty, but for her lineage, so that his descendants may be blessed with the blessings of their forefathers.
This advice from Tobit carries several important messages that are relevant both in the context of the story of Tobit and in a broader Biblical context. The emphasis on choosing a wife from one’s own people highlights the importance of preserving one’s cultural and religious heritage. This echoes the Bible’s frequent admonitions to the Israelites to marry within their own tribes to maintain the integrity of their faith and traditions.
Furthermore, Tobit’s advice also underscores the idea of continuity and legacy within the family. Tobias will ensure that his descendants will be able to trace their lineage back to their forefathers by marrying a woman from his own people. This theme of generational blessings and continuity is a common thread throughout the Bible, as seen in verses like Proverbs 13:22 which says, “A good man leaves an inheritance to his children’s children.”
Additionally, Tobit’s counsel to consider a wife’s character and values over superficial qualities like physical beauty is a timeless message that resonates throughout the Bible. Proverbs 31:30 captures this sentiment, stating, “Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.” This emphasis on inner qualities and moral character over external appearances is a fundamental principle that transcends time and culture. Tobit’s advice to Tobias in these verses encapsulates themes of heritage, legacy, and the importance of choosing a partner who shares one’s values and faith. These timeless messages continue to resonate with readers today, offering wisdom for building strong families, preserving traditions, and seeking relationships based on genuine substance and character.
After Tobit 4
The chapter concluded with Tobit’s wise counsel to his son Tobias. He urged him to be righteous, to give generously to the poor, and to never turn away from those in need. Tobit’s words were a testament to his deep faith and his desire to see his son walk the path of virtue. The weight of his father’s guidance rested heavily upon Tobias’s shoulders as he prepared to embark on his journey. He knew that the road ahead would not be an easy one, but with Tobit’s words echoing in his heart, Tobias was determined to face whatever challenges lay in store. The next chapter would reveal the trials and tribulations that awaited him, testing his resolve and his commitment to the principles his father had instilled within him.
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