Why Do I Crave Approval?: Daily Devotional for 30th October, 2025

Just last week, I found myself sitting on my couch, mindlessly scrolling through my social media feed. I had posted a picture of a family gathering, filled with laughter and joy, and was anxiously watching for likes and comments. Each notification sounded like a little jolt of happiness, making me hopeful that my friends appreciated my moment of happiness. But as I kept refreshing the page, the numbers seemed to rise too slowly for my liking. It felt as if my worth was tied to those little hearts and smiling emojis, and I couldn’t help but wonder why their approval mattered so much to me.

This made me reflect on why we often crave approval, especially in today’s digital age. I realized that it harkens back to our desire for connection and belonging—a deep-rooted human need. When we seek validation online, we’re not just looking for likes; we’re searching for affirmation of our identity and our place in the world. Understanding this need is crucial because it reminds us that real approval comes from the love and acceptance we give ourselves and from our Creator. God sees us for who we truly are, not just through a lens of social media. Our true value lies in His acceptance, not in the fleeting approval of others. It invites us to seek inner peace and self-worth from within, rather than relying on external sources that can never truly define us.

I often find myself checking for likes and comments on my posts, searching for that little rush of approval from others. It’s a habit many of us share, as it feels good to be acknowledged and accepted. But I’ve started to wonder: why do I crave this approval so much? Is it a sign of insecurity, or is there something deeper at play? I realize this desire ties back to a fundamental need for connection and belonging in moments of reflection. We all want to know that we matter, that our voices are heard, and that we are valued by those around us.

Proverbs 29:25 reminds us, “The fear of man lays a snare, but whoever trusts in the Lord is safe.” This scripture shines a light on the struggle I face. When I seek approval from people, I’m often setting myself up for disappointment. People can change their opinions or may not recognize my efforts, leaving me feeling unworthy or insecure. But when I turn my heart towards God and trust in His love and acceptance, I find safety and assurance that I am sufficient just as I am. This realization is freeing; it helps me remember that my true value doesn’t depend on the approval of others but comes from my Creator who loves me unconditionally. Each day, I aim to seek His approval above all, grounding my worth in His eyes rather than the fleeting accolades of the world.